Don't Wanna Be Friends Anymore

by @wrenarcher

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Liner Notes

#folk #acousticguitar #girlwithguitar

I finally got one!!!
I've been chasing this one since the first day.

So a few months ago I was watching a young-adult, lesbian, queer YouTube series... you know, as one does. Well, I heard a song as one episode in the series was ending that I really liked. So I looked it up and learned the progression. There is one section of the song where I thought the singer said, "I don't want to be friends anymore". It was close but not quite. That stuck in my head and I began noodling around with why that might be.

This is the direction I took with it.

Lyrics

Don’t know how it happened

This friendship that we fell in

Tradin’ laughs and advice and tears.



It’s like it sprung up outta nowhere

Unlikely, rare, improbable

Opposites playin' on the same team



We’ve shared our wins and our losses

Late night drowsy clumsy tosses

of compliments and soft flirting



Now I’m holdin’ a flame

Tremblin’ match in my hand

Knowin’ full well it could ruin everything



I think I’m ready to commit

Arson on our friendship

Burn that shit down

Heat of a thousand
suns
on my face



i don’t wanna be friends anymore

Don’t wanna be friends with you anymore

i wanna feel your lips to mine

tangled limbs intertwined

i don’t wanna be just friends
anymore.



So now it's out there this confession

Did I just lose one of the best things
in my life

I’m exposed without my armor



Should I’ve taken this to the grave

Might have been a big mistake

or maybe this might bring us so much closer



i wanna feel your lips to mine

weight of your body like a fine wine

warming up my skin and my soul



now I’m holdin’ a flame

tremblin’ match in my hand

knowin’ full well it could ruin everything



I think I’m ready to commit

Arson on our friendship

Burn that shit down

Heat of a thousand
suns
on my face



i don’t wanna be friends anymore

Don’t wanna be friends w/ you anymore

i wanna feel your lips to mine

tangled limbs intertwined

i don’t wanna be just friends
anymore.
i don’t wanna be just friends
anymore.

Comments

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Love your guitar work, love the internal rhymes you've worked in here and there ("burn that shit _down_/heat of a _thou_sand suns"). I can feel the vulnerability from here. Beautiful, soulful piece.
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Such a cool sneaky love song! I really like your acoustic here, you get a lot of good dynamics out of it. I think you have an incredible ear for strumming patterns and how link it to your lyrics, but I'm not saying anything you don't already know.
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excellent- I think all the other comments really nailed the many great points of this, its got that classic 'fake out' structure with the chorus reversal...and its an emotional and melodic performance- really well done! and those distant background vocals are perfect...
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This is so emotionally charged and I love the guitar too. I'm so glad Heid commented, bc I wanted to reference those exact lines but didn't know what to call those end word parts, but those were the best parts. I also thought this was going to be just a friendship break-up, but I love the change to romance. Super creative 🧡
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Oh my gosh this is beautiful- what a cool idea! The title made me think it was going to be about losing a friend, but the turn it took instead is so much more interesting and thrilling to me! I love it! Committing arson to a friendship to become lovers- what an image! You really do a great job of conveying how it feels to attempt this transition, it's terrifying and beautiful. Also I love your voice. Can't wait to hear what else you share here! XO
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I love how a little snippet of an idea or something we watched can morph into a whole song/new idea/creation.

Love the "as one does" in your notes.🤣

Absolutely love how the first line of the chorus is completely flipped on it's ass with the second line. GREAT GREAT idea.
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Gosh, Wren, this is so good! The melancholy chord progression and ethereal backing track caught my attention right away, but it's your lyrics ("We've shared our wins and losses/late night drowsy clumsy tosses," "I'm ready to commit/arson on our friendship" ... oof!) and beautifully vulnerable delivery that went straight to my heart. So good to hear you this year!
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Daaaang, you got a good one! That is a tasty chord progression and the lyrics WOW... so clever, with so much depth. Your voice starts out slightly guarded, tentative, but the emotions spill out as the song progresses, gave me chills... ahhh, that little sigh after the bridge... the swooning back-up vocals. This is stunning 💖
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I really love where this is going. At first I thought it was about a friendship break-up, but the progression to romance makes a lot of sense. Your voice works so well with this genre and I can actually imagine this song being used in some kind of TV-series. Which brings me to this: what YA lesbian show were you watching? I'm quite curious!
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@heid
I love the little swoop your voice does on "tremblin match in my hand" and "might've been a big mistake"
and the melody on the first time you say "i don't wanna be friends anymore"?? oh my god so pretty and expressive!

I also like the distant "oooh ooh" on the instrumental part.

So excited that you're here!
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This song is so evocative, love your voice!
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Guitar sounds so good. ‘tremblin’ match in my hand
 / knowin’ full well it could ruin everything’ - what a great line! I also thought this song was about a friendship ending, loved the twist. Fantastic work!
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Oooh, that title made me feel like this was about a relationship ending, not going next level! Nice twist there.
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Oh this is AMAZING, your playing, your singing, those haunting distant “oohs”, and the fragile intimacy of your lyrics. I love it, and bravo to your first song of this FAWM! ❤️
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Oof, "I think I’m ready to commit
 / Arson on our friendship
" is a hell of a couplet! This is great, Wren.
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this has melancholic, introspective feel with a cool.progression and strong vocals that convey a deep emotional feeling.
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i love it, you're an amazing singer and it really is a great chord progression. The line "tremblin match in my hand" is so powerful and really captures the feeling of the whole song to me
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